Take a look in the mirror if you don't like what you see then pick a new outfit. It's not always easy to find someone that can be a real friend, someone that will tell you the truth. These ladies has just that a friendship that will take them thru. It's not easy adjusting to life, not knowing what is coming next or what to say to help someone in need but you don't have to give up on yourself. These ladies took a deep breath and look at what was in fromt and went at it. How we handle the cards that are deal and the life we have can either take us thru the wave of life. Just letting someone be themself is one of the greatest gift you can give of yourself. J. Thomas